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Initiating the Conversation: A Guide to Discussing Estate Planning with Your Family



Discussing estate planning with your loved ones is an essential task in safeguarding your family’s future. However, broaching the topic can be challenging. Here is a guide to help you navigate this important conversation with your loved ones:


Choose the Right Moment

When bringing up any sensitive matter, timing is key. Look for a relaxed setting with minimal distractions, such as a family gathering or a quiet moment after dinner.


Explain Your Reasoning

Start by expressing your care and concern for your family’s well-being. Share why you believe estate planning is essential – whether it is ensuring financial security, honoring wishes, or protecting your family from a mess after they are gone. If you are broaching the topic of estate planning because you have noticed a major life or health event, now would be a good time to bring that up as well.


Use Real Life Scenarios

Rather than discussing estate planning in abstract terms, bring the conversation closer to home. Consider scenarios that directly impact your family:

  • “No spouse, multiple children: who gets the house?” Discussing who gets the family home can highlight the importance of clear directives in a will, rather than leaving it up to the government’s default plan.

  • “Managing digital assets: how will we access your information?” In today’s digital age, it’s crucial to address the practical aspects of how your family will navigate accessing important online information like passwords and banking details in your absence.

Read: The Mess You Leave Behind

Encourage Additional Education

Unless you are an estate planning attorney, it is perfectly normal not to have all the answers. Encourage your loved one to learn more about estate planning from the experts.


Fiffik Law Group offers education workshops and webinars focused on demystifying estate planning. These sessions cover wills, trusts, probate, and much more. Attending these events provides a valuable opportunity to deepen your understanding and address specific questions you may have.


Sign up for one of our upcoming workshops or webinars here.

Recommend Professional Guidance

To move from talk to action, suggest the next step of seeking professional advice. A consultation with experts, like those at Fiffik Law Group, is a great opportunity for them to ask specific questions and begin to formulate a tailored plan based on their unique situation.


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Foster Ongoing Communications

Estate planning is not a one-time conversation. Encourage ongoing discussions about any changes in family dynamics, assets, or wishes. Regular check-ins ensure that their plan remains relevant and up to date.


Read: When Should You Update Your Will? 8 Signs It’s Time to Review Your Estate Plan

Approaching estate planning discussions with your family may seem daunting, especially since you yourself may not be an expert. We encourage you to take the initiative and know that you are investing in the well-being of your loved ones.


Ready to start the conversation? Contact the experienced estate planning attorneys at Fiffik Law Group for a free initial consultation.

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